Have you ever felt like you're constantly chasing change, only to find yourself spinning your wheels? Or maybe you yearn for personal growth but feel overwhelmed by where to start? I've been doing a lot of thinking lately, and what's emerged is a surprising truth: sometimes, the most profound freedom comes from embracing structure.
Some of us associate "routine" with being stuck, boring, or even limiting. But I have found immense comfort in being routine, having rituals, and needing structure. In fact, I'm actually thriving in repetition. And guess what? This comfort isn't just about me; it's deeply connected to something bigger: His steadfastness. The unchanging, unwavering nature of God. Knowing He is constant provides the most secure foundation for my own fluctuating life.
What I've realized is that this embrace of structure isn't about rigid control, but about creating a stable environment for transformation. Because parallel to this newfound comfort in routine, I've also been actively overcoming, leaving behind, removing, correcting, healing, and changing.
Specifically, I'm talking about a deep-seated bent for codependency that has touched so many areas of my life: my thoughts, my relationships, and even my expectations for myself. It's a journey, for sure, but the beautiful thing is that the very routines that bring me peace are also empowering me to dismantle these old patterns.
When you have a consistent framework – whether it's a morning devotional, a structured self-care practice, or even just a predictable daily rhythm – it creates the mental and emotional space to do the hard work of internal change. It's like having a stable operating table for heart surgery; you need that stability to heal.
And at the core of it all? The simple, profound truth: God loves me. His unconditional love is the ultimate freedom, the ultimate security. It's what allows me to lean into these uncomfortable areas, knowing I'm safe, seen, and completely cherished.
So, if you're looking for breakthrough, don't shy away from structure. Consider how a little more routine, a few more intentional rituals, or a clearer framework in your day could actually open the door to the very freedom and healing you're seeking. It might just be the most liberating thing you do.
What's one small routine you could embrace this week to invite more peace and progress into your life?
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